He is forever touching and rubbing me, he has the best hands!! So now they are fattening each other up!! I am successful, greedy, indulgent, fatter than ever, and answer to piggy. I was at 225 so never thin. She has known she's a type 2 diabetic for 4 years, and suspects she had been diabetic for years before that, but she's an addicted feedee and insists on continuing to eat what she wants and regularly having me feed her until she is simply too full to eat another bite. Maybe I can recognize that I could be a negative influence. You can't force someone to have the same kinks as you. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. It does!!! 100lbs in a year? If she likes to snack, have lots of them around. It's not going as well as planned and there are arguments and tantrums everyday. Name a popular food that you really dislike? Can you imagine your hubby as a 500 pounder? But when he does make these comments.. eating less food or something.. it upsets me. It helps if she hangs out with fat female friends, if that's possible. That you physically dont appreciate it or that it represents or reminds you of him being lazy/unhealthy/unattractive? But he has been super sweet about my weight gain, so Im a little conflicted!! MY fat boy! After the pregnancy, she just never lost the weight, and in fact, much to my delight, kept gaining. They are wonderful in every way! He always puts us first and works really hard. DID SOMEONE'S PARROT GET OUT? She did it anyway . An my baby girl, she gonna be nice an plump too! He lost that battle during lockdown and now he takes pride in being overgrown. A couple of years ago I thought of having gastric bypass surgery but am glad I didn't because it would have ruined my marriage . My boyfriend/girlfriend is doing it and or are encouraging me to do with them. I can't say to her I told you so. My wife is the same way. Lucky man. Now you know why skinny fat is dangerous and what you should do to help your husband overcome it. There are many different types of pill and many other forms of contraceptive, and even the Practice Nurse will be willing to give you advice on what may be better for you. It's not my place to be mad if he wants to less eat or drink fewer sodas. In order to get him to actually go, sign him up for a personal trainer or massage at . It's so uncharacteristic of me, especially since my last boyfriend was a total sports buff. But the fatter Ive gotten the more she seems to like it. . I keep getting fatter and she keeps aggressively offering me desserts and seconds. We even talked about marriage in first year . Nice! My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. He is trying to make you fat on purpose because he wants to make you look "unattractive.". My beautiful wife was never a waif. There are all kinds of things that make up our attraction to a person, including our own state of mind. Last year she had gastric bypass. Over the four years we've been married, she has completely ballooned, weighing 245 or so after year 1, then 260 year 2, 280-290 year 3, and so far this year, she's really piling on the pounds. Pinterest. I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! Im used to being in charge of things. With that being said. Do employers care about a 2.2 after a few years? I keep imagining if the situation were reversed. It has ruined a lot of marriages which I thought about. More often, it waxes and wanes. I have always felt fat, but by America's standards, I am very underweight. Youll find that this will help put 25+ pounds on your hubby as you start your married life and then you can increase his portion size to get another 25 pounds on him by your first anniversary. Then she got pregnant with our first child and gained 90lbs. My darling angel weighs 206 lbs as of her last check-up. So glad to read this. My comment is perfectly valid. Couldn't keep my hands off her. A lot of people have been facing worse mental health during the pandemic, but even though its pretty normal and common right now, its still absolutely worth taking seriously. Thank you!! That will make her feel confident and beautiful and want her to keep those extra pounds for her appreciative man! Yesterday, I accused her of being a pusher and patted my fat belly and she just raised her eyebrows. I couldn't believe that was the guy I was about to sleep with. Disclaimer: My website and blog should not be considered as being a replacement for Professional Doctors advice. He is most likely into it but cares more about your happiness. I've noticed that as I gain faster (I think at least 50 pounds in just the last 12-14 months), he has been making more and more fattening food and bigger and richer desserts. Well, if you dont mind how he physically looks or feels (although part of you sounds jealous because you have stayed in shape for him), then I would suggest telling him that he is still attractive and you dont mind his extra weight, but that you want him to start trying to be more active and healthy (not necessarily lose weight) and say you can work on it together. I'm happy and lucky. She had dieted down from around 400 for her wedding day and after we were married she told me that she hated every minute of the diet and that not being able to eat her favorite fattening foods was like torture. I have stuff around the apartment, like sodas and sugary juices and snacks I know he'll enjoy. Disclaimer: My website and blog should not be considered as being a replacement for Professional Doctors advice. If you do not receive your email shortly, please check your spam folder. I like to think that my tubby hubby is wearing my affection around his middle. Its not like he doesnt know hes gained weight. His legs and arms are still quite lean. In some ways, fat has a regulating effect on some people in that they are kinder, more empathetic, etc. Right on, Im 32 and was raised in a big fat family who enjoys their food and it shows. (I mean when we're not arguing about something.) A few weeks ago he told me, joking, that it's good I go frequently to the gym to look nice at bikini season. I like my husbands new size and weight and Im sure that your husband does, too, especially if hes already told you he wouldnt mind you gaining some weight. This time, if the subject comes up about weight, I just pat my belly and own the moment. It's pretty clear he is sending the message of his likes by suggesting you gain more. He seems so much happier and content and less prone to mood swings since he's put on weight and eaten food regularly (instead of forgetting to eat for half a day when he was in school), but maybe I'm making a false argument for causation equals correlation. If that changes which I personally doubt you can make another decision later. For more information, please see our A fat body can (but does not always) imply laziness, short-sightedness, and a kind of disregard for one's holistic well-being." "A woman who is fat clearly just doesn't care about herself." "Being . As a fat woman myself, I'm still struggling with how I feel about it. I got wet instantly just thinking about it! S** is unbelievable for us. Its normal to be less attracted to someone when they arent caring for themselves, when they arent taking initiative, when they have less of an external life going on than they did before. She was maybe 120and has gained maybe 15 or so. He likes to lay next to me facing me and push our bellys together. A lot of women can't get past the fact that a tall, fit, active guy has a wife that's bigger around and wider than she is tall. This should be obvious. I love my fat husband! Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. Wish us both luck! I wondered if my husband would recognise me after surgery loosing weight in a short space of time. He just keeps eating. He is supportive, intelligent, has a great sense of humor this list goes on and on. I'm not that tall so it's a lot - I'm 5'7 and at the moment I weigh 234 pounds. Thats why everyone should remain careful about these causes. We been dating 6 years and now its been almost year since her surgery. The next time a "gift-giving holiday" rolls around, buy him a gym membership. but I'm not sure I want to anymore. Also make sure you f*** him! Ive tried to be very vocal and physical to show her how much I love her new size, and I think she is starting to believe me. Whenever I observe how fat Ive gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. And why? That's the real trick. As for safely backing out, avoid your place for the hookups. I find the weight gain to be very sexy on her. When we start dating we share gym sessions, but after the wedding he was getting lazy and said me so often that he must work at home or so on. When we got married she was 325lbs. Women are affected terribly by body dysmorphia issues because our culture makes them hate there bodies. He's not overly muscular, but he's lean and sculpted. He loves to play with her belly rolls. The reason why skinny fat is so dangerous is that its hard to determine until its too late because the person looks completely healthy from the outside, even if they have a bad fat buildup inside. Say yes but don't do anything. It could also happen if youve never done much strength training to produce muscle growth, you dont eat enough protein-enriched foods, or you have been in a calorie deficit for too long by burning more calories than you are taking in. They read something about being fat helps you think better or something like that. At 27 years old and rather tall, 98 pounds takes a whole lot of work. turns out all i was was fat. I starting gaining since I retired and there is something rewarding and comforting about not worrying over weight and appearance and growing yourself into a 300 to 350 pound tub of lard. On our tenth anniversary she was 295 lbs, and on our 20th she weighed 360. How fat has he ended up?Much prefer a chubbier guy. We've been married for 7 years. So glad to read this! He has a slight double chin now that I also think is sexy. A half year later and she's preggo. Well, she got comfortable in the relationshp, and the weight started to creep up. After 5 years of marriage, he now weighs 360 pounds with a 60 inch waistline. Then show him some pictures of various bbws from 200-400 pounds. Ive always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that Ive put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. Yes, looking good is definitely important, but whats more important is to be healthy and have a long life. I havent been a pig about it. TWO: GET STRONG. Consider stepping away and saying, "I need a moment after what you just said." Avoid engaging in further conversation until you've stepped away and had some space. I started at about 200 after gaining 30lbs from COVID, I think that's what encouraged her to ask me to gain weight. Better s**, less arrogant and more relaxed.Just gotta keep having s** with them and keep giving them good food for an easy life. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. What you must avoid is confessing that you're losing your attraction to him. She now weighs 215 pounds and shes getting fatter bu the week. I thought I was crazy or some kind of pervert.. but it seems the love of big woman is quite normal. This 250 lb tub is already gaining. I know my wife, who loves to eat too much to worry about how fat she is or will become, really started to pack on the pounds after she became friends with a coworker who is even fatter the she is. I write about why I'm fat and what has worked for me to lose weight and the things I've learned about how hard it is, and the problems with that. Hell finally figure out that you want to get fatter and fatter and hell encourage you! Ice cream and cheesecake are cocaine to us fat men. I'm 15, 5'5" and about 120-125 pounds and I'm a size 0-2. It might be a hard process of bulking up and then cutting down. 20 years later she has passed 325 pounds and still slowly gaining, we both love her size. She never discouraged me from dieting before, but I never heard an encouraging word either. 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